Calming Bridezilla

34 more days to go :) I cannot wait, but I know there is still lots to do before the big day. We've got to decide on songs, put together wedding programs, buy the alcohol, meet with more people, and there's more -- I just cannot remember all that is on the checklist. Things have been going smoothly though.

Last weekend we hung out with many of the important coordinators of the wedding. We met with the chuch coordinator first to go over some of the parts of the wedding program and flow of the ceremony. She's pretty cool, and Jay gets along with her pretty well. By the middle half of the meeting, the church coordinator and he were bouncing jokes and sarcastic remarks off of one another.

Then, we had a glimpse of how the flowers would be arranged in the sanctuary. Sometimes I think Miss D is too good to us (She's the one who is helping with flowers). The arrangements and layout is going to be beautiful and simplistic -- just the way I want.

We then headed to our reception site where Valerie, my wedding coordinator, set up a table to help us get a better picture of how the reception would look. Again, it was exactly what I wanted.

Although it is getting down to crunch time, I do not feel as anxious as I had predicted. I am thinking it is probably due to the fact that I have an amazing fiance whom I could not imagine being without; the numerous angels who surround us, asking what they can do to help; and our angels from above. All that said, there have been some stressful moments that caused my mother to intervene and calm the Bridezilla that was about to overtake me. I think I've done pretty good though. I'm expecting Jay to post on here stating the opposite.

Well, it looks like Jay is almost finished with the last book in the Twilight series. We are off to work on dinner plans for Father's Day.

Another Billion Dollar Idea I'm too lazy to implement

So I just got back form the gym and I'm running Quicken to pay a bill, and it occurs to me that I could greatly simplify calorie counting if they'd put the caloric value of everything I buy at a restaurant on the receipt. Then I could just scan all my receipts (or better yet, download my calories from the bank).

It'd be really neat to watch how many calories each dollar buys, and budget the input and output like with all other account types. A smart pacemacker could count how many calories I burn, and the rest could be measured by a digital commode. Networking all these gadgets together would give me a real-time report of how much longer I need to stay at the gym to eat another order of fries.

I suspect, though, that much everything I do in Quicken, it's just to feed my OCD, and probably doesn't make my habits any better.

Say Yes to the Dress... Unless It's a Red Micro Mini for the Mothers

Well, it's getting closer to the date... 58 more days to go. It'll be 57 in about 3 minutes from when I first started typing.
Jay and I have moved all of my stuff into our house. For awhile there, I was just bring random items in to contemplate where they would look the best. Actually, I probably still do that. I know my family is thankful that this will be my last move for a long time. I moved every year that I lived in Birmingham -- from Madison to Rast Hall, Rast Hall to Blount Hall, Blount Hall to Mountain Brook, Mountain Brook to Fultondale (please don't ask me about that mistake), Fultondale to Vestavia Hills, and FINALLY Vestavia Hills to Madison. Yes, that's a splendid 6 times. Now, it's time to unpack and see what I've acquired over the years. A lot of it will probably be going to the Asbury Thrift Store.
The bridesmaids dresses came in earlier this month, and they are quite stunning. Well, they will be stunning once we get most, if not all, of them altered. They're beautiful dresses, but none of them fit! I am also on a search for shoes. It's harder than I had anticipated, but I have many wonderful ladies that will be more than happy to help me.
This weekend should be very eventful. Jay and I are celebrating 3 years together on Friday at Connor's Steakhouse. He told me that this will be a once a year dinner. Saturday I will be helping my mother find a dress for the wedding. We will be staying away from anything that even suggests sexy or scandalous. She'll be stylish and beautiful though. Saturday night we will be going to a wine tasting where there is a prize for correctly guessing what kind of wine you were served. And Sunday, as most days, will be devoted to working on the house along with a mix of church (my baby sister has a solo).
57 more days, folks. Make sure everyone packs a box of tissues. My mother will need it soon.

Examining Personality Types

Since Jay's posts were back-to-back, I have decided to add pictures to mine to make up for not following the correct posting procedure. The two figures above are talking about the different personality types. I think it would be a good idea for Jay and I to complete this assessment. While it gives an individual a clearer picture as to how their personality is constructed, it has also been used in marriage counseling to help the couple understand each other better. For example, one spouse may like to tell long, drawn out stories while the other likes to get to the point of the story. The story teller spouse may get frustrated when the "get to the point" spouse wants to rush the story along, appearing like the story is unimportant. Most likely, this kind of situation will not have a positive result. However, if each person in the relationship has a better understanding of how the other communicates and thinks, the result may have a happier ending.

Before we delve into the different personality types (INFP, ETSJ, etc.), I'll give you some of the basics.
There are 4 dimensions of personality type:
1. E/I=how we interact with the world and where we get our energy from
2. N/S=How we gather information
3. T/F=How we make decisions
4. J/P=whether we prefer to live in a structured way or spontaneously

The E stands for extraversion. These people get energy by being with others.
The I stands for intraversion. These people get energy from alone time.
The N stands for intuition. These people are imaginative and dreamers.
The S stands for sensing. These people are detail oriented.
The T stands for thinking. These people are objective and logical.
The F stands for feeling. These people are tender hearted.
The J stands for judging. These people are structured and organized.
The P stands for perceiving. These people are spontaneous.

My personality type came out to be an ESFJ. I wonder what Jay will be... Any guesses? I'll have to give him the assessment this week and post the results.

I'll have to see if I can find a test online that is similar to the Myers and Briggs' Personality Type Indicator. Although, nothing can beat going to a counselor to have your results interpreted!

Study Break

It's technically Wendy's turn to post, but she got out of it by re-doing the layout. She's joined the ranks of xml-marker-uppers and put my html skillz to shame. (If you're reading this in Facebook, you're really missing out. Actually, if you're reading this at all, you're also missing out, but it's too late to worry about that.)

I'm in the middle of a take-home final right now, and it's been going pretty slow.
There are plenty of hints written into the questions, and I have notes to cover basically everything, but I guess I've gotten out of shape since the midterm.

I've started negotiations with a travel agent, but she wants a deposit immediately, and hasn't so much as sent me a picture of the place. I don't know if that's standard operating procedure, but after my experiences with booking other bargains, I'm a bit cautious. I don't tend to make decisions quickly, and fear of having to make them makes me put off beginning the deciding process, which makes them take longer still. In the end, my first instincts tend to be pretty good, but like the proverbial turkey for whom life gets better and better every day up until November 13, you can't always go by past experience.

Preparing the Nest

It's been six months since Wendy & I bought our house, and after me living here that long it's beginning to look like we're starting to think about moving in. We've got a couple dozen pictures framed, but they're all on the floor, since yours truly doesn't want to put holes into the walls until they're all paid for. That should only be twenty years or so, but by then we might have the technology to hang pictures in a non-destructive manner, or have enough projectors mounted on opposite walls to achieve the same effect. The attentive reader might find it odd that I'm more comfortable mounting electronics than hanging pictures, and the reason has to do with a preference for screws over nails. I've had more successes with screws: they're more adjustable, they don't bend, and they have a built-in undo mechanism. Nails are more of an art, and seem to be much more dangerous in my experience, what with the sharp point and the blunt object moving at high speeds.

It'd be much nicer to have pegboard walls in every room, or velcro or lego, for that matter, so that everything could be hanged and rehanged just as easily, without having to repaint. In case you're wondering, I'm even less skillful with liuqids than with sharp objects, and the possibility of having to repair a wall when one of us decides a picture needs to move makes me even more hesitant.

Eventually, and likely sooner than later, the danger of tripping over one of the picture frames will exceed the danger of one of them falling off the wall on one of us, and whichever of us ends up in charge of picture hanging will get to work on the implementation phase of that project. For now, though, there are plenty of pictures on the computer, and since we spend more time looking at those than walls anyway, it all works itself out.

Here Come the Brides-In-Training

These are my adorable flower girls! Caitlin and Hannah were fantastic dress models, and I especially loved the dance performances. We took a trip to David's Bridal the other night to see what we could find. However, the selection of dresses at David's was less than impressive. None of the dresses that you see on here are the official dress of the flower girls. So, on to researching dresses online. We have found some candidates, but have not made a final decision as to which will be "THE dress."
I think Hannah liked any dress that twirled when she spun around.
Caitlin seemed to love this particular dress. Actually, I think she loved every dress she tried on. Jennifer gently told her daughter that this dress would be better fitted for Caitlin's own wedding day. We are hoping that day does not come too soon, especially since she is only 6 years old. But a girl can dream, eh?